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This week in a very interesting interview, Terry Crews - you might remember him as the loud muscle popping Old Spice spokesman said he and his wife just completed a 90 sex fast.
Today we are going to talk about affection intimacy and sex and why Crews is right that this did increase the love and intimacy in their relationship and how when you learn the real reasons why this helped them you can do it too.
We are going to discuss the 3 levels sexual intimacy according to relationship expert Sue Johnson and how you can increase the love and connection and intimacy in your relationship without A 90 DAY FAST.
This week, Terry Crews - former NFL player, TV spokesman and Sitcom actor stated he and his wife just completed a 90 day sex fast. He discussed how it actually drew them together and that they are more intimate now than they ever were.
Crews talked about how for 90 days they focused on talking and touching.
Those are the foundation to falling in love. When we date, we talk a lot. We touch and cuddle and get to know one another.
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When couples move straight into sex they are missing a major part of what builds a relationship. The connection and the intimacy.
Sue Johnson talks about this issue of instant gratification in our society.
Good sex is about bonding. The biggest factor in the quality of your sexual relationship is the safety of your emotional connection with your partner.
When we feel securely connected to somebody, then we can be open to new ideas, we can be curious, we can explore, we can take risks.
Defining feature in women’s sexuality-- only in women does prefrontal cortex switch on like crazy. Desire primes women’s brain to light up--wiat wait, is this safe?
women physically vulnerable in sex. Also, women need to talk and check out the relationship before they can let themselves go before they can descend into arousal. Talking is a key point of foreplay for women.
How you connect sexually is how you connect emotionally.
connection trouble sets us up for not-so-satisfying-sex (solace sex), (sealed off sex)
This is what you were talking about with Sue and exactly what Crews discovered. We grow closer together and actually have better sex when we are nt having sex.
A very common and very useful tool to increase closeness is Sensate. It is a great way to build bonds and connection intimately, without the pressure or expectation of sex.
This is an amazing way for couples to practice connection and actually for the women - maybe even the man - to work through those cognitive barriers.
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